A Toast to the Boastful

2 Corinthians 12:9

As I write this blog, I’m visiting my parents down in the South Georgia where my folks pastor a small Pentecostal congregation.  They have only been stationed here a little over a year and already God has blessed their efforts tremendously with growth spiritually, financially and numerically.  But on the travel down, I allowed my mind to just wander a bit while my three small ones were napping and my wife was, in an attempt to take full advantage of such an atypical event, doing the same.

I began to ponder my walk with the Father.  I allowed my mind to settle on this season of life and what it has brought me and my family.  Here’s my conclusion – it’s been tough!  No sugar coating it, no political correctness!   Life, in the last 5 years, has dealt us some tough blows…some because of us, some in spite of us and some through no fault of our own.  Consider, over the past 5 and ½ years, my wife and I have:

  • Gotten married
  • Had not 1, not 2 but 3 kids – however, I now know what causes that and it will stop!
  • Bought a house (selling said house)
  • Both changed jobs
  • Moved twice

All of these circumstances and more, coupled with the ‘normal’ marital challenges have, needless to say, been cause for concern, prayer and counseling.  So I felt the Lord asking me…”what do you do when times get tough?  Where do you turn?”  I came up with a seemingly super spiritual response when I replied, “Lord, I can’t handle all of this – I’m too weak!”

In today’s world, when times get tough, people often tend to turn tail and run or bail.  I have to ask…

What do you do when times get tough?  Do you isolate yourself?  Do you take yourself out of the game?  Do you rest on the sidelines while the direction of your life, your spouse’s life, and your children’s lives is being determined?  More importantly, while the destination of those mentioned above is being determined for ETERNITY…where can you be found?

I was reminded of Paul’s writing to the church at Corinth in his 2nd letter to them.  Paul, in talking about how he had asked the Lord to remove his thorn in the flesh, penned these words, “but He said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for My power is made perfect in weakness.  Therefore I will boast all the more gladly of my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may rest upon me.”

Again, I want to challenge you today – He knows you can’t do it.  He knows your weaknesses.  He knows that in your own strength, you will fail.  However, if you understand and accept your weaknesses and yes, even boast in them…the promise is right there: the power of Christ will rest upon you!  I don’t know about you, that encourages  me to get back in the game and continue the fight!

So, when times get tough; when you feel like you’re all alone and you’re been pushed past the point of being able to make it, don’t bail…just do a little boasting!  So here’s to the boastful among us – I hope to be much more like you and Paul with my daily walk!

Tim Cook
TJM Leadership Team